Comments on: Is the MFF Triad Poly-tically Incorrect?

By: lil miss freak girl 69

lil miss freak girl 69 — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 21:52:42 +0000

im in a mff relation ship as the fiancee who is marring my man . it seeemto me we have arranged scheduals for sleeping and intimate encounters but i have seen that my hubby to be is being intemiate only once a week and more active with the other female partner more. he also communicates more then he dose with me and i have put my jelosy issues aside about her but it it normale to eel as if he is drifting awya from me when he makes excuses about why he not intimate as much yet he bends over back wards for her . i told him i see she is falling in love with him she admits it and she is not in love with me the same way but i see her as my wife and him my husband but i think he try to be equal and make her happy and me but some one always feels as if one of thm is not getting what they need i finally gave in yesterday i gave her my blessing to have him impregnate her cause im tired of felling its all my falt that shes not happ but when she happy and hes happy somthing happends to make me feel inadquite and over emotional like feeling im loosing the man im to marry. if any one has any suggestions how to not loose ones self in totoal sadness and feeling as if all is lost pleas e contact me please

By: WiccanWoman

WiccanWoman — Sun, 16 Dec 2012 14:28:54 +0000

This original blog post and all the comments resonate deeply for me. I’m a female with a husband and a wife. My husband has two wives. My wife has a wife and a husband. We are an interactive polyfidelitous triad, and have no need or desire to “rock the boat” with any changes or additions. We are happily in love with one other, and will remain together until we die and our organs are given for transplantation and our bodies are donated to science. We have had legal documents drawn up and we retained an attorney to act as our executor and estate administrator to make certain that our intentions are carried out exactly as we expressed. None of us have any fear. This is our life, and it is exactly what we want. May you ALL be as blessed/lucky! Namaste.

(FYI – We will be in our 60s soon, and have grandchildren. This lifestyle is not “just” for the young LOL.)

By: Mystic Life

Mystic Life — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 23:08:03 +0000

Hi Tera,

You’re welcome. Thanks for sharing about your journey. Be true to yourself and life will take the form it is meant to take

Peace,
Chris (pen name, Mystic Life)
http://www.SpiritualPolyamory.com

By: Tera

Tera — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 13:40:35 +0000

Thanks for this post, as a married lesbian, just simply trying to explain that alone causes many problems. My husband and I want to have a loving relationship with another women, this brought us in our search to a MFF triad. Not that it will be in the near future or even far future but we would love to be able to marry our wife. We first must find her and have only had one person in our life that we thought was even possibly “the one”. We are having the same issues with not so nice responses in the poly community. We had to turn to the swinger life to meet people that were less Wicca and shaved and not so closed minded. I know there must be others like us out there, maybe one day I will create a website for like minded folks.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Sat, 25 Aug 2012 13:27:07 +0000

I’m in love an in a triad realtionship with my husband and another man so I suppose it’s a mmf or mfm. I live full time with my husband and my other spends weekends with us and we share a bed. It’s a wonderful relationship for us and it helps that my husband isn’t jealous.

By: Mystic Life

Mystic Life — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 09:06:21 +0000

Hi Miss Angel,

Thanks for sharing…I’m glad to hear this article was helpful on your journey and I wish you and your loved ones happiness.

For further resources check out http://www.AnUnconditionalLove.org

Peace,
Chris (pen name, Mystic Life)

By: Mystic Life

Mystic Life — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 09:02:16 +0000

Hi Miss Angel,

Thanks for sharing…I’m glad to hear this article was helpful on your journey and I wish you and your loved ones happiness.

For further resources check out http://www.AnUnconditionalLove.org

Peace,
Chris (pen name, Mystic Life)

By: miss angel

miss angel — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 13:24:07 +0000

Or correction maybe its a fmf either way there are two lady’s one male… see lop I’m very new to poly…

By: miss angel

miss angel — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 13:20:13 +0000

I being very new to poly feel that the mff is my ideal set up. I met a great guy only 4 months ago and he was very open to me about what he was looking for. At first I was like no way am I strong enough to handle sharing the man I was falling for. But we all learn to share as chilldren don’t we? We dated with out the title for about 3 months and had several conversations on poly. I was still not buying it… so when it came down to losing the man I care for id rather try and fail then not try st all. I was lucky enough to get the chance to try. When isay very new. I mean this is week one… with a mff set up. I’m nervousness but a chance st love is worth it and I wouldn’t let any one tell me different. The woman he introduced me to has Been a friend of his for several years and we have a lot in common. I think we found our unicorn … and if it falls apart ive gained a great female friend. Only time will tell. This artical was very helpful. Super glad I found it. Thanks for reading my comment. And good luck to all no matter the set up your looking for.

By: Mystic Life

Mystic Life — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 02:21:33 +0000

Hi Deb,

Congratulations on what sounds like a healthy and rewarding MFF triad. I’m glad to hear this article seemed to validate your experience.